I finally just set myself up as a carrier and marked everything that way as if I was the carrier. Don't know if that is the correct but haven't had a problem since. I did have a couple of digital items I was giving away as free and did not have them set up as virutal products but just had a file that they could download in the attachments part. I also changed them to virtual so don't know if that made a difference also.
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I finally just set myself up as a carrier and marked everything that way as if I was the carrier. Don't know if that is the correct but haven't had a problem since.
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